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Pastor Chris Oyakhilome Stirs Up Controversy With Gender Equality Claim

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Pastor Chris Oyakhilome has started a fresh controversy on gender equality.

According to the Senior Pastor of Christ Embassy, the man is the master in a marriage and not the his wife’s equal.

Oyakhilome made the statement in a video where he preached on marriage.

In the video, the clergyman who is divorced from his wife Anita, stated that most women have difficulty in keeping a happy home because they think they are their husband’s equal.

According to him, the husband is the master in any home and must be respected.

 

“Do you know the meaning of husband? I think some of you don’t know. You think husband means the male partner in a marriage.  Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage. Husband means master. That’s what it means, not the male partner in a marriage,” he said

He added that the failure to acknowledge the role of the husband is the reason there are problems among Christians in their marriage.”

“Marriage in Christianity for most people is just a flop. Why? Because they don’t agree with God’s definition, they have theirs. They believe they are equal partners. Listen to two people that have just gotten married. A lot of times, it’s the woman that speaks first” he said

He continued by revealing the reason why God made woman.

“If you want to live according to the Bible, according to the scriptures, then understand what the word says. The reason God made woman was because of man. He made the woman because of the man, that’s why he made the woman. So, woman was not his original idea”, he said.

According to Pastor Chris, the reason why most women miss it in marriage and relationship is because they did not have a father figure.

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“If most women had their father bold enough to talk to them, they’ll be very successful in their marriage and they’ll be very happy people. Most women have never been taught by their parents, their fathers particularly. That’s their biggest problem. They don’t know who a man is. They think he’s another woman. You see, in a marriage you have the man who is the head of that union. And because he’s the head of that union, it is important to understand him. Now, you think “he’s the one that needs to understand his wife”. That is where you are wrong. He will, but until you know who you have married” he said

The sermon which was applauded by some social media users was however labeled as archaic by some who questioned why his own marriage ended in divorce.

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Watch video clip of him preaching about this in church below

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A lot Of Babies Will Be Made Due To COVID-19 Lockdown-Pastor Adeboye

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There is often a good side to every sad occurrence.

As far as the COVID-19 pandemic is concerned, the production of a lot of children has been described as the good side.

According to Pastor Enoch Adeboye of the Redeemed Christian Church of God RCCG, a lot of babies will be made as a result of the COVID-19 lockdown.

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The clergyman said this in his sermon on Sunday, May 31, adding that preaching his sermon.

Listing some of the good things that will come out from the COVID-19 lockdown, Pastor Adebayo said that Pastors will be so busy early next year conducting baby naming ceremonies.

 

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Boxer, Anthony Joshua Reveals Biggest Challenge

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Anthony Joshua has opened up on his challenges in finding true love, stating that he’s yet to find someone to call his girlfriend.

 

The world heavyweight boxing champion spoke with to The Sun about life in lockdown with his family including becoming “super dad” to his four-year-old son, JJ, and how it has been hard for him to balance his profession together with his personal life.

 

AJ says: “I think you can date and still be a successful sportsman but it’s hard to find a balance and I would have to compromise — which I’ve not felt able to do.

 

“My dad never gave me advice about much. But in terms of relationships what I have learnt and what I tell my son is, it would be nice to find a high school sweetheart and to grow together because as you get older you get set in your ways.

 

“For me to have a relationship now means I would have to compromise and change my ways and I don’t know how easy that would be for me to do.

 

“So I do date but I don’t get to the stage where I actually put anyone into that position.

 

?I don?t have a girlfriend and I can?t find someone to grow old with" - Anthony Joshua opens up on his challenges in finding true love

 

“I don’t have a girlfriend and I haven’t had one for a while. But as I get older I do think it would be nice to have someone, someone to grow with as well — but I honestly haven’t found anyone.”

 

The British Nigerian boxer also went on to say that he hopes to find a woman who would have to understand what it’s like to be famous,

 

He explains: “Maybe I need to get off the estate and start going to celebrity parties — maybe do something different.

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“I hope I will — and probably meeting someone else who understands fame would make sense. I would hope so. But it needs to be someone down to earth, family-orientated – someone who can call my mum their second mum.

 

“It takes time to grow that and, as I said, now I am older I am stuck in my ways. As I get older it would be nice to bring someone into my world but it’s dependent on who and I just haven’t found someone yet.

 

“Maybe we can go on a hunt. We have all the time now.”

 

Joshua also revealed how he has become super-dad while in lockdown with his four-year-old son, JJ

 

AJ says: “I started off as super-dad and then that slowly went out the window and to be honest he’s watching way too much TV now.

 

“The only thing he wants to do is watch Paw Patrol and Ryan’s World – there’s no way you’d get him watching Joe Wicks.”

 

“At home, he doesn’t really think of me as a famous boxer or anything like that. I’m not a superstar and he doesn’t think so either. He knows I fight but that’s all.

 

“I always keep that stuff away from home. I’m not like that at home – and I’m not even like that when I go out, really.”

 

AJ, who has been home-schooling his son doesn’t think he would be sending back to school when the lockdown come to an end.

 

The heavyweight says: “The next conversation is about him going back to school — although I’m not too sure if we’ll send my boy back to school just yet.”

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While boxing fans want to see him fight British rival Tyson Fury, AJ says: “In my own mind I had mentally written off most of this year but, if I was to fight this year, it would probably be November or December.

 

“It’s difficult at the moment knowing how you cover the costs, and whether you could charge people in the circumstances for pay per view.”

 

?I don?t have a girlfriend and I can?t find someone to grow old with" - Anthony Joshua opens up on his challenges in finding true love

 

On how he’s been keeping fit, AJ explains: “It’s my lifestyle. That’s what I’ve done all my life – instead of going to college, I went to the school of boxing. I learnt how to fight.

 

“So I’m still doing my studying, I’m still doing my education but I’ve got a key to my local gym which I’m allowed to go in. You need discipline and that’s one thing I’ve got personally, I don’t need to be told or pushed – it’s in my character.

 

“I just hit the bags, skip and it’s the first time in my whole boxing career where I’ve been left alone.

 

“Normally I’ve got someone in my ear, telling me what to do, how to do it and I’ve actually really enjoyed being on my own. It’s been a blessing.

 

“And there’s nobody to spar with so you don’t get hit — that’s not always a bad thing!”

 

He went on: “My workout regime is always boxing and it’s one of the things I love most about boxing. Out of all sports, you really don’t need much to get started.

 

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Odion Ighalo Inches Near To New Man United Loan Deal

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Nigerian international and Shanghai Shenhua striker, Odion Ighalo is looking more likely to be a Manchester United player when the season resumes.

Ighalo whose loan deal expires today Sunday, May 31, is set to remain in Manchester United in a loan extension.

Manchester United is seeking to seal a last-minute deal with the Chinese club, Shanghai Shenhua as the club’s executive chairman Ed Woodward is in frantic talks with Shanghai Shenhua hoping a deal can be agreed to keep Ighalo at Old Trafford until the end of the year.

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According to the reports that emanated Sunday, Ighalo’s parent club Shanghai Shenhua are interested in negotiating a new loan contract with Manchester United after being paid £3m for his initial loan deal. Negotiations are now centred around an extension until the new year.

According to goal.com, ”while sources say there is hope and confidence a deal can be found between all parties, the extension has yet to be fully agreed upon as the deadline ticks closer.”

Recall that Ighalo arrived United on loan on the final day of the January transfer window.
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